How To Be Succesful for Yourself
Being successful can be defined differently. It doesn't have to be a big thing. Little things can make us successful just like bigger ones.
Success is a subjective thing. Your understanding of success might be different than any other person's. When we think of success first things that come to mind are material things. But it’s not necessary to feel successful only after earning something material. Even a little flower can make someone feel successful. Also doing a two-page homework could mean success to someone.
Success is a subjective thing because people can consider different things as success. If you need to write a description about success, success is something that makes someone satisfied or happy because of the thing they did or maybe thought. Success is a term associated with happiness of course. Because when we feel successful, it makes us happy. Doing a job we need to do, making money, being first in a race, winning a sports game, drawing a picture, having a relationship all these might be a success for someone. Even though success is a subjective thing, some things are considered a success by society. For example, having a decent job, having a great family, winning a medal, and getting a good grade on an exam. These kinds of things are considered a success by society norms. So success has both subjective and objective sides.
To get the happiness and satisfaction which comes from the feeling of success, we need to do some fundamental things. Usually, we need to work hard, be disciplined, be ambitious and be confident. And we need to be consistent with these aspects. Because usually, people have high standards for success. We do not tend to believe that small things are success too. We’re often being too hard on ourselves because of our high standards. But I think we should focus on little things more often. If we get success from little things, it will be easier for us to get success in big things. Our goals should be like this. We should start from little things to big things. We shouldn't have low standards but we should be fair to ourselves.
In conclusion, of course, success is important for everyone. But we need to be fair to ourselves, this method can help us be more successful in our lives. As I said, success can be considered as things that make us satisfied. We can be satisfied with little things too.