Is happiness really a decision?

We always hear or read the following sentence:

"Your happinesss is your decision."

Do you see the same? For me, I get some positive energy when I hear this and by the way it is correct but not totally. I mean, I see it is not 100% our decision because there are circumstances that make sometimes matters harder and not the way we like.

The decision is when you move and take a step but unfortunately you cannot gurantee the result. However, I still believe that yes it is mostly about us, even how we face bad and unexpected situations in our lives.

Happiness is how to handle your life, how you talk to yourself and how you receive anything new in your life.

I read before that the idea is the base of the behaviour, which means that how you act and react is not spontaneous but it is a result of how we always think. That is why, you see different reactions of people have the same situation.

Maybe, the happiness is an equation between your readiness, your positive energy that you should always have and search for sources of it, the way you talk to your mind and your heart, the way you treat your soul!

To be honest, I cannot ignore this part. Maybe for some people, when you talk about luck or fate, you will seem as a negative or traditional person but it is my point of view so far.

You cannot choose everything happens in your life but you can leave, you can avoid, you can react your own way.

I hope happieness to be our fate and I hope we always can have the clear vision to choose the happiennes and the power to decide our happiness.

We can start. We can decide. We can enjoy! :)